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Below are your Can't Stands. Review them carefully. If you want to change any of them now or in the future, use the Change Selection button.   (comment by me, Craig Rusbult:  I recommend looking at my original "21 Can't Stands" for 11 other attitudes/behaviors I wouldn't want in a mate, and occasional comments.)

Worrier...
  I can't stand someone who easily loses perspective and constantly worries.
Anger...
  I can't stand someone who can't manage their anger, who yells, or bottles it up inside.
Lying...
  I can't stand someone who lies to anyone-especially to me.
Grudges...
  I can't stand someone who has a chip on their shoulder.
Childishness...
  I can't stand someone who is not emotionally mature.
Undependable...
  I can't stand someone who fails to come through and is unreliable.
Depressed...
  I can't stand someone who is constantly unhappy about their life.
Mean Spirited...
  I can't stand someone who has a devious nature and is mean to others.
Denial...
  I can't stand someone who is unable to accept blame or see fault in their own actions.
Victim Mentality...
  While everyone has times of self-pity, I can't stand someone who continually sees himself/herself as a victim.